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「我離港前到過一間精神科醫院。當時有位病人禮貌地問,一個以作為世上最悠久民主政體而自傲的國家,如何能夠將此地交給一個政治制度非常不同的國家,且既沒諮詢當地公民,又沒給予他們民主的前景,好讓他們捍衞自己的將來。一個隨行同事說,奇怪,香港提出最理智問題的人,竟在精神科醫院。」彭定康 金融時報

“During a visit to a mental hospital before I left Hong Kong, a patient politely asked me how a country that prided itself on being the oldest democracy in the world had come to be handing over his city to another country with a very different system of government, without either consulting the citizens or giving them the prospect of democracy to safeguard their future. Strange, said one of my aides, that the man with the sanest question in Hong Kong is in a mental hospital.”Chris Patten Financial Times

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Thursday, October 22, 2009

由美國有線新聞網絡報導的香港《援交》




《CNN》She doesn't want to be identified, except by her nickname
"Sze," and she has a secret past. Her father doesn't know what she did as a 16-year-old, and she hopes he never finds out. But Sze, now 19, wants young girls to hear her story so they never make the same mistake.

SEE: Video CNN.com

"My first customer was an ordinary man in his 40s. We skipped the dinner part and went straight to the guest house for sex," Sze recalled. "Actually, I was a bit scared, but I knew this was the only way I could get money. This customer wasn't bad, though. We just had sex, he paid, and then he left. I thought this was easy money, and that's why I continued doing this kind of thing."

For a year and a half, Sze was part of a growing social phenomenon among teens in Hong Kong called "compensated dating", a practice in which a young woman agrees to go on a date with a man for a fee. More often than not, the date involves sex.

Sze said she started compensated dating because many of her classmates at an all-girls school were doing it. She says she became jealous when she saw the designer clothes, bags and cosmetics they bought with the money they earned through compensated dating. Sze wanted the same for herself, so her classmates introduced her to Internet chat forums where she met male customers. Watch young women describe why they do it.

The practice can have deadly consequences. Last year, a 16-year-old Hong Kong girl was killed in a gruesome murder after she went to a 24-year-old man's apartment for a compensated date. The man, Ting Kai-Tai, killed the teenager, dismembered her body and flushed the remains down the toilet. A jury convicted him of murder and sentenced him to life in prison.

Sze told CNN she knew a compensated date could go horribly wrong. She would set ground rules with clients on the phone first. She charged them $350 for a date and clarified how many times she would have sex with them.

She said sometimes the customers would stray from the rules, asking for more sex or refusing to wear a condom.

"Sometimes, I did feel shame. I kept asking myself why I had to do this kind of thing to make money. But the feeling didn't stay long. I would relax when I wanted to buy something. I just thought I could always quit after a short time or whenever I wanted," Sze said.

Most girls who engage in compensated dating don't view themselves as prostitutes, said social worker Chiu Tak-Choi.

"For the girls, they don't think so because they think they can quit anytime. The girls -- even though they post their details on the Internet -- they think they can quit. Even if they encounter the guys, if he is not good-looking, she can quit and say 'I don't do it.' They think they have a lot of power to control whether they do it or not, so they think of it very differently from prostitution."

Chiu, the social worker, is currently working with about 20 girls who are trying to leave the world of compensated dating. It is hard to quantify how big the problem is in Hong Kong because the business is conducted under the radar, he said.

Chiu believes the problem is getting worse because his caseload has doubled in the past two years.

Prostitution is illegal in Hong Kong, and legal experts say that compensated dating is a form of prostitution. "The law prohibits soliciting for immoral purpose," said Stephen Hung, a criminal litigator with Pang, Wan & Choi. "When a court looks at sentencing, the greater the age difference, the more serious it (the sentence) is."

Why do young girls get involved in compensated dating? The reasons vary from an unstable home life to a desire for material goods, Chiu said.

One 14-year-old girl told him she started compensated dating when she lost her cell phone. She said her parents wouldn't buy her a new one, so she thought she could earn some fast money with paid sex. She had her eye on an expensive cell phone. When the money from the first compensated date didn't cover the cost for the new phone, she went on a second paid date.

Girls involved in compensated dating don't necessarily come from poor families, Chiu said. They are from all levels of socioeconomic classes, he said. Improved family communication is one solution to preventing girls from becoming involved in compensated dating, Chiu said.

"The family has to do its part. I think caring for children is very important. Whenever they have problems, they can ask someone for help."

Sze said she was saved by a social worker who stepped in on her behalf. After a pregnancy scare and a number of unpredictable customers, Sze said her self-esteem plummeted. The social worker helped her get back on track.

"She helped me understand that making money respectably is actually not that hard in Hong Kong. I finally realized that it was wrong to make money by selling my body. It just wasn't worth it."

Sze now works at a hair salon to earn a living. She has tried to talk her old friends out of compensated dating, but they are not listening, she said.

"They felt annoyed when I talked to them about this. I'm now reluctant to get in touch with them. They just tell me they're different. Maybe they have more serious family problems or some other burdens. I know I can't control their thinking, so I just stopped trying to help them."



利用最原始的需求進行交易,是人類社會史中不可缺少的一環。不用談遠古,也不用談古代,就是第二次世界大戰之後的戰敗國德意志和日本,盟軍的大兵哥,駐在佔領國,當地的物資缺乏,德國日本女性,以親近駐軍大兵哥,從而得到物資,不但幫到自己,並且惠及家人,這個現象一直到德國和日本經濟飛躍,才稍停了下來。


公司內有幾位四五十歲的美裔同事,有些微亞洲人的面孔,就是當年美軍和日本女性生下來的混血兒,他們的日本母親,很多是後來跟著美軍移居美國,才正式結婚和學英語,是利用最原始的需求,進行交易。


中國改革開放初期,香港的一些男士頻頻北上,尋求廉價供應,滿足原始的需求,supply and demand 互動,進行交易,各得其所。到了三十年後的今天,沿海的省份富了起來,但內地較內陸的貧窮省份,仍然源源不絕輸出、供應,提供,利用最原始的需求,進行交易。


我不是女性,沒法有這方面的感受,對純為了生活,為了供養家人,而去做交易,沒能說是“對”與”錯“,還覺得這批女性可敬!


但若時下祇是為了滿足《物慾》,而去做交易,倒感到扼腕一嘆!我們的教育和社會出了甚麼錯,究竟為何會這樣子呢?


後記:
無線 TVB 《新聞透視》有一輯名為:援交自白
【新聞透視~援交自白】援交少女被殺案,轟動全港。保安局長李少光直斥援交等同賣淫,警方高調打擊,放蛇拘捕援交少女。

由從前的「魚蛋妹」、「老泥妹」、「私鐘妹」到現在做援交,現今少女賣淫與從前有何不同?你情我願的一買一賣性交易,背後反映著甚麼的價值觀?

有援交少女悔不當初,認為是畢生污點﹔也有大學生說是自願選擇援交,視為一份過度性質的職業。社工界對援交現象十分焦急,一場社工論壇,吸引近二百同工出席,交流輔導援交少女技巧和心得。



CNN 所選擇的角度,祇是針對 Girls sell sex in Hong Kong to earn shopping money,TVB 就加多了,也有大學生說是自願選擇援交,視為一份過度性質的職業。各位可以分別收看 CNN 的 Video,和 TVB 得 Video,在下面『伸延閱覽』已經做了連結。


伸延閱覽:
Girls sell sex in Hong Kong to earn shopping money CNN.com
Compensated dating to earn shopping money CNN Wire
Compensated dating ~ Video CNN.com
CNN 報道香港援交少女 谷歌新聞搜尋
新聞透視 2009-09-19 ~ 援交自白(含視頻片段) TVB.com


我的舊文:
Son of a Bitch ~ 賣肉養孤兒
第一次做鴨的經驗


14 comments:

新鮮人 said...

性觀念開放,
喜歡做就做,
物慾主義,
享樂主義,
不願負出勞力,
唯有出賣身體!

Anonymous said...

The TVB show was interesting. Thanks.

I have nothing against sex trade between two consensual adults. But young women should be protected when they obviously do not have the maturity to make the right decision for themselves. When I come back to visit, all I see is the prosperous side of Hong Kong. It's hard to imagine what's really going on.

exile

收買佬 said...

你咪話﹐呢排我忽然接多了好多有關0靚妹援交既case﹔而當事人又例牌係有d 錢既
樣衰中坑﹐真係看見都眼冤

the inner space said...

新鮮兄:所謂單一隻手是打不響的,沒有變態鹹濕佬,沒有這需求,是不能完成交易,邊樣先呢?我們的教育和社會出了甚麼錯,究竟為何會這樣子呢?

the inner space said...

Exile,so you can see this one, eh!

Do come back more or repatriate back to HK!

the inner space said...

收收兄:當事人是有啲錢既樣衰中坑,即是你見到的是啲中坑,唔喺啲援交的妹妹仔。

唉!萬惡淫為首,啲中坑攪啲,做得自己個女嘅援交妹,知否心理有缺坎,須要補償呢?

兄臺專業守則,不能透露case內容。我唯有靠估:若妹妹仔唔夠秤的話,好難打得甩噃。若因為口頭議價,完事後有出入,要是攪和解,都幾有趣噃,小額錢債哈哈哈!

收買佬 said...

呢類case﹐隔一排就見報﹐案情大多一樣﹐唔駛我去disclose 咯

the inner space said...

收收兄:哦!明白了,謝謝你!

新鮮人 said...

性慾強和性變態是兩樣東西,
不要混淆喎!

the inner space said...

新鮮兄:你所提出的“強”即是超過正常,這不是變態就是病態了。亦是直口去攪婚外情,更甚者就是非禮強姦,出外嫖妓利用金錢淫人妻女,所謂萬惡淫為首,若能夠清心寡欲,這世界就少了很多罪惡根源。

超過繁殖後代為最終目的之性行為,就是違反了造物者的原意,再加上是非婚姻關係的性行為,這還不是變態?當然兄臺可以提出更變態的實例。若兄臺不接受變態,就改叫作病態罷,這些人其實是有病了,要吃藥抑制,若不能治愈,最好是閹割了。

Anonymous said...

In HK, there seems to be more judgment towards the young girls than those child rapists. Legally, under-aged children cannot give legal consent to ANY sexual activity. It is called statutory rape. These men should be prosecuted.

Now, morally! These men are a bunch of disgusting cowardly morons. If they must have sex, find someone older for heaven sake.

exile

the inner space said...

Exile, I took the liberty by assumming that you have reached the legal age!I don't have the statistics for under-aged prostitutions in Hong Kong.

Yes, as I have pointed out it needs two hands to clap!There are both demand and supply who comes first I am clueless!

There are such perverts out there seeking for sexual pleasure with child prostitutes EAST and WEST.

There were many reports from the west about religious people involved with child pornography and pedophilia cases too.

These are sickos 這些人其實是有病了,要吃藥抑制,若不能治愈,最好是閹割了。

Anonymous said...

閹割? :)

Space, you should have worked for Bush/Cheney at the Guantanamo Bay Detention Camp. They could use more "torture" ideas!

the inner space said...

Exile, 閹割 castration refers to those sickos not for the terrorists!

For terrorists even have their private parts removed they are still terrorists. They have more severe torture(s)at Guantanamo Bay Detention Camp.

I have no mercy for terrorists but the point is how many in the Guantanamo Bay Detention Camp are genuine terrorists?